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Put simply, a needy person doesn’t feel good inside and then saddles the other person with the responsibility to make them feel better… whoops, “my battery died, sorry I didn’t call you back last night.” Nobody’s perfect. When you boil it all down, neediness is not some set of behaviors. When a person takes on the belief that another person is responsible for their happiness, their sense of well-being and their sense of self-esteem, then it’s guaranteed that they’re going to act needy as a result of that mindset.
(FYI, we have a whole chapter on this in our new book “He’s Not That Complicated: How to Crack a Man’s Romantic Code to Get the Relationship You Want“) Even the kindest, most well-meaning, most empathetic guy won’t be able to satisfy a woman who acts needy the majority of the time. I would be pretty surprised if you never had a needy guy around you. Making someone else responsible for your emotions is a key ingredient in creating a toxic relationship type dynamic, so it’s very important to guard against doing that (as well as recognize when others are doing that towards you).
From what she’s told me, it all sounds pretty appealing.
As people’s lives become busier and as careers take off, your priorities shift.
Could you imagine what you would want to do if that needy guy was texting you right now?
like they’re entitled to them and their partner is cruelly withholding it.
As in so many situations at this age, immaturity won out over reason.
We tried to make it work as best we could, but ultimately the distance worked against us.
That same comment over the phone or sent by text message or Gchat has the potential to develop into a giant bomb of hurt feelings and misunderstanding. When you live in the same city, extended periods of silence or a lack of steady communication are taken in stride.
Talking as much as you can about everything from how your week is going to the status of your relationship to the plot twists on “House Of Cards” is healthy for any relationship, but its especially important if you’re miles apart. If work gets busy, or if life outside of your relationship is all consuming for a little while, it’s no biggie.
I don’t know, it’s something about seeing “sexting with my boo” in your mental day planner that saps all the excitement out of it. He said something weird to you that you misheard while looking for your shoes and rushing out the door? Maybe you’ve been harboring quiet resentment over the way your partner sheds all of their clothing like a snake does its skin on the way to bed.