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A good looking Hungarian woman who speaks English, German, or French is quite a find, and she knows it. That means they are used to recieving flowers before being taken to the theater and wined and dined afterwards by a nice smelling young man who goes to the bathroom every fifteen minutes to preen in front of a mirror to ensure that he still looks nice and then after two dates he's allowed to get to home base, and then they get married, two years later divorced, and that's where you walk in. You did not go to the same school system, did not serve in the same army, did not grope her same girlfriends in highschool, nor belong to the same Young Communist league. That doesn't mean that meeting the Hungarian girl of your dreams is going to be easy. And taking her out to nice restaurants that normally cost you an arm and a leg, but now leave you a financial quadripelegic.
I once met three Aussie guys while on a flight to Ibiza. Personally, I couldn’t date a guy uninterested in travel, so I can vouch to say that for other female travelers, you’re already doing better than most guys. If you have the confidence (and decency) to start a conversation with a gal while you are sober and functioning, AND you're putting forth an effort to hang out with her more than just that night, you’re five steps ahead of fellow travelers and locals. Between those and “where are you from” or “wait, can you say your name again, I’ve never heard that”, you've got enough ammo.
I spent the entire weekend with them, gallivanted with them throughout Spain, and again outside of Sydney. Women who are traveling often seek a good time, too, and you can be a part of it. Chatting with new people might seem intimidating, but if you're traveling, you've got nothing to lose. It's not like you'll see her in science class or at work tomorrow. But given your adventure-seeking status, you'll have plenty to talk about. You don't need cheesy pickup lines to talk to women -- especially when you're from some other place.
She recieves daily faxes from suitors the world over and she knows the exact opening hours and addresses of the Chinese restaurants that serve imported lobster Szechuan style, which goes extremely well with a light, yet fruity French white wine, slightly chilled, and remember to tip the waiter 10%. You are different than all the nice smelling young men she's known. Nor has she been busted for possession by the same cop in Alabama, dropped out of the same University, belonged to your voodoo cult, nor ever watched The Brady Bunch. You can't tell a Hungarian girl that you are a tourist. And while the local Joe gets to home after two dates, you will have to wait longer. You will have to compose yourself with a lot more chilvalry and charm than Western girls demand. You compliment her looks, her clothes, ask attentively about her day at work. At the same time, all this hoopla is designed to get you a few old fashioned rewards.
You have to come up with something more permanent, like environmental protection engineer or journalist (a perennial favorite around our office.) You will also need a suit of clothes that could not possibly have ever seen the inside of a backpack, and a real pair of shoes. The waiting period is to see if you are "serious." That means that you are either staying in Hungary long term, or you are really, really rich. You will open doors for your date, but you will always enter a restaurant or bar first. You are expected to be a gentleman, and gentlemen are not expected to do their own laundry.
They want A Man, not a companion who knows how to parboil brown rice and cries at the end of movies. The Azeri prison officials should have just let him rot in gaol when they had their hands on him! Mary Ellen Liebowitz | May 4, 2004 I think the author of this thing is in need of some serious R&R!
Americans suck | Jun 20, 2005 This guy doesn't know the ABC's about Hungarian women, must have got lucky with 70 yr old and blabbering like an idiot!!!
Listening to this advise you ain't gonna get nothing, you'll end-up 'choking your own chicken' - like he does.
As travelers, women are automatic targets for unwanted attention. And that, mates, is a tale you'll be able to tell all your friends back home.
Depending on where you are, the lady may have already dealt with cat-calling or aggressive behavior. Don’t raid the fridge if she’s just offering a snack. Subtle transitions of hugs, arm touching, holding hands, and dancing are great indicators of understanding whether or not she’s into you. Let me spell that out for you: sleazing is creepy and puts out bad vibes, whether physically, verbally, or even virtually via a computer; it entails unsolicited, unwanted, and uninvited sexual behavior. [Author’s disclosure: not all women and men are the same; this will work for some people and not others; if you have a problem with generalizations, check out “How Trolls Make Me Vomit” or “5 Reasons You Aren’t Any Fun”.] Stephanie Be is a UCLA-trained writer, social media expert, and bon vivant.
Visiting a new place presents the opportunity for fun, self-discovery, and adventure. It's basically 100 percent less sleazy if you meet a girl when the sun is shining. Who's more wholesome: The guy at Starbucks, or the guy at the club?